My story for the boy I buried
What I understand so far is that this world can be a tough place, but it’s easier knowing you are not alone in it. Reassurance, resilience may lead us forward. So, this book is my world. This is my story. There lies beauty in sharing, for what is life if you are not giving.
— Xavier James
#1 Best Seller on the Amazon Kindle LGBTQ+ Biographies & Memoirs chart
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What People Are Saying About Come Undone
‘Beautiful, generous, tender and moving. This is a powerful gift to whoever reads it.’
— Matthew Cooksey (LGBTQ+ Life Coach)
‘This book gives the reader hope and energy to face their own battle.’
— Katia Ariel (Award Winning Author and Editor)
‘Touching, needed and a must read for young adults and their parents.
Coming of age is complex in
Gen Z and this memoir offers a rare glimpse through their eyes.’
— Michaela Romano (Educator)
‘A raw reminder about the universality of life and love.’
— Kevin T. Norman (Author and BookToker)
‘A poignant, insightful book for individuals, and those supporting them, on the journey to discovering their authentic self.’
— Jacob Hkeik (LGBTIQ+ Mentor and Network Leader)
‘Written with a tenderness bespoke to those familiar with the complexities of self discovery, this memoir is a comforting nod to anyone carving out a space for who they are.’
— Kurt Hughes (Writer and Producer)
‘I just wanted to say that I really applaud you for publicly confronting your inner demons and insecurities on such a wide reaching platform. On a daily basis, I’ve witnessed students who are LGBTQ+ struggle with and question being themselves in a setting, which at its very core values and beliefs, rejects who they are.
My ultimate goal as a teacher, is to ensure that every student feels safe to be who they truly are, whether gay, straight or somewhere in between. Stories like yours are the ones that allow younger and emerging generations to feel comfortable in themselves and within society - so thank you for being such a positive voice in a world of negativity.’
— Catholic School Teacher
‘Wow, I know we’ve never met but that was really moving. It echoes a lot of the emotions and challenges I faced. I went to a religious school and question what my role and schooling experience would’ve been like if anyone at the school knew - and even know I have that same anxiety with certain aspects of my work. Just like you went to Africa, I went to Canada to try to escape it, but it was something that had to be confronted sooner or later.
The world isn’t fair and there is still horrible prejudice in our society but it’s so reassuring to know there are other people who have gone through the same challenges I have and have made such great strides. Good on you.’
— 25 year old
‘I’ve sat here for the past 10 minutes trying to write you a message, but I keep rewriting because nothing really describes how amazed I am at the strength and vulnerability you’ve shown. This insight into you has the potential to save so many people.
I’m really proud of you. It takes a lot, and you’re so insanely special for doing this. I genuinely look forward to seeing where the future takes you. Keep it up 💛’
— 23 year old